Hi,
you don't need separate servers on both DB and HTPC. Try to setup CCcam server/client on DB and get picture on it first. Ten when you familiarise youresf with how it works, you can try to connect HTPC to DB. I might be wrong but NewCS stopped support for windows at some stage, so how can you run the latest version on W7? There is plenty manuals "step by step" how to setup CCcam, just google it. You're obviesly lost in all of it so try little by little.
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